Goldie Hawn discusses her relationship with longtime partner Kurt Russell on Dan Buettner's podcast
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In a clip shared exclusively with PEOPLE ahead of the episode's Jan. 22 release, the actress says "freedom" is the key to her 42-year relationship's success
Russell is also "an amazing person" and "my sexual object," Hawn says
Goldie Hawnand partnerKurt Russellcontinue to remain a strong duo because of the freedom they give each other.
In PEOPLE's exclusive clip fromThe Dan Buettner Podcast, produced by Andrew Zimmern's Intuitive Content and distributed by Lemonada Media, the Oscar-winning actress, 80, explains the key to making arelationshipthat began in 1983 work: "freedom."
"I have a relationship with birds," says Hawn. "I'm a bird. And you leave the cage door open, I may never fly out. But if you close that door, for my freedom and my independence, I would probably take all my feathers off."
It's "a freedom of self," she says, that makes her relationship with Russell, 74, so successful. "It's a freedom of basically not melding into somebody else, when you're copacetic on certain areas and you have freedom."
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Hawn and Russell, who areparentstoKateandOliverHudson and Boston andWyattRussell, have each in the pastspoken outabout their decision to not marry.
"We constantly got asked, 'When are you going to get married? Why aren't you married?' " Russell toldVarietyin 2023. "And we were like, 'Why does anybody care about that?' We'd asked our kids if they cared about it. They didn't. We didn't."
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In her conversation with Buettner, Hawn similarly dismisses the notion of tying the knot with Russell. "Even if we did get married, it wouldn't make any difference because it's 42 years now," says theDeath Becomes Herstar.
Asked why she keeps choosing Russell throughout those 42 years, Hawn says, "Because I have respect for him because I think he's an amazing person."
She adds that she's "also very sexually attracted to him. And that's important. If you have a long-term sexual relationship, that's actually really healthy. He's my sexual object."
Russell, she says, is "so smart" and "such a great actor, and I find him incredibly handsome to this day. Kids love him. We're an unbelievably happy family — most of the time. … There's a cohesiveness. Why would I want anybody who is perfect? There is no such thing."
The full episode of Lemonada Media'sThe Dan Buettner Podcastfeaturing Hawn's interview drops Thursday, Jan. 22, at 10 a.m. PT on YouTube and on podcast platforms.
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